"If you don't like something, change it; 

If you can't change it, change the way you think about it." 

 (Mary Engelbreit)

"The hardest thing in life is to learn which bridge to cross and which to burn..."

(David Russell)

...and my theme song at the moment...

Tubthumping by Chumbawamba

  "I get knocked down, 

but I get up again,
You're never going to keep me down"